Sunday 21 September 2014

"Take me home!"

".. And it's a bright morning with already scorching sun providing excess heat to everybody and everything which is coming in its way! Birds have left their reapective nest in search of food. 
There's a voice from background similar to my mommy which requests me to wake up! I thought I was dreaming but then there is a sense of summer (already arrived) and I have already started sweating. I open my eyes, note the time in my mobile ( the most valuable thing for me in my vicinity) and it's 10 am. My mommy switched off the fan so that I could wake up and perhaps that's why I was sweating. :) Oh I forgot, Yes! It's a Sunday morning with no obligation of going to office, login on time and keep getting exhausted till 7.30 pm. It's only me and my favourite time pass! (Writing) with a cup of tea (converting in an ice tea. Oh I so wish! I could see that transition). LIFE's Good! Isn't it?"

The idea of narrating the beginning of my morning is not to push you in boredom! It's all about appreciating the tiniest of moments which we live without regretting that we could've done it little better. The fact is that we really couldn't have! We all are so possessed with our own problems, tensions and agonies that! Oh wait! Problem???
What problem do we talk about? Is it because our girlfriend/boyfriend has not fulfilled the promise made with us? Or because we don't get desired respect or love from the person we love? May be, we did not get good appraisal in our respective offices or may be our talent is not justified at office with the kind of paycheck we are offered! 
Oh now I get it! We call these circumstances as a problem. So let me be a little harsh or possibly a little rude to all of us. If we consider these as a PROBLEM, then mate! we are blessed and probably the "chosen ones" that we have those problems because we can never realise what actually problem, pain and agonies are! If you are really interested in knowing where does this 'so called' character namely PROBLEM resides? Request you to please visit "malignant diseases treatment centres" of any hospital. Yes! It's the same place where a deadly disease called CANCER is being treated and cured ( oh! At least they tell so) You may find many people who are just like us but the few differences between us (them and we) is that they don't know whether they would see tomorrow's SUN because they do not have the same cells in their tissues unlike us. Few carcinogens have mutated their cells into an altogether different cell category called CANCER CELLS! 
One more difference worth observing is, they are happy! They are fighting with a devil inside, on daily basis and when they defeat that devil even for one day, they get the confidence of fighting it again, to survive for one more day... A real fighters, isn't it?
 
Whenever you think you have a problem or you cannot deal with a tension, look around and just think that you compete with a bunch of people who have been an epitome of Problems but they are still a bunch of "HAPPY PEOPLE"! Inspired! Determined! 
They are indeed the best corporate subjects to learn from! 

Thanks for reading! :)

Thursday 4 September 2014

Redefining Life in 21 Days

"Less pain, better health, satisfying relationships, a better job, being more serene and joyous... Sound good? It's not only possible, it's probable. Consciously trying to reformat your mental hard drive is not easy, but you can start now and in a short period of time- time that will pass anyway- you can lead the life you have always dreamt of having."

These are definitely not my words but it comes from a great philanthropist Mr. Will Bowen! Ever since, I have heard about him, read him and known him, I have indeed been a great fan. 

"Redefining life in 21 days"! Wow, what a great idea! They say, anything or any activity which you do consecutively for 21 days becomes your habit and that perhaps, is the driving factor of entire human race. 
We might have read, heard, seen and observed hell lot of economics in our respective households or in a even larger spectrum i.e in our country. But have we ever observed! What is it which makes us to execute any action? We all will promptly say, it's our mind! But how? How do we blame somebody? How do we gossip? How do we accuse or subsequently how do we complaint? Let's go little deeper in economics! It's the same relation as it is in product and consumption. If consumption is more then production will have to increase or in other words if demand is more then supply will have to increase to match the demand level.
Likewise, our brain or mind keeps producing these elements (viz; complaints, gossips, badmouth or acquittals etc). You know why? Because the consumption of these elements are more by us and the culprit or executioner is our Mouth! Let's stop the consumption of these elements and automatically production will decline drastically. You just have to do it consecutively for 21 days! The steps to follow; 
1. Begin to wear bracelet on either wrist.
2. When you catch yourself complaining, gossiping or criticising, move the bracelet to the other wrist.
3. If you hear someone else who is wearing a bracelet for same cause complain, it's okay to point out their need  to switch the bracelet to the other wrist, BUT if you are going to do this, you must move your bracelet first! Because you are complaining about their complaining.
4. Stay with it. It may take many months to reach consecutive 21 days. The average is 4-8 months.

Imagine the world without any complaints and then imagine the efficiency and productivity of each individual.

"A complaint free world"

Thanks for reading!