Are you over sharing your relationship???

Are you putting the details of your love life all over the Internet without realizing it? 

Sharing the intimate details of your life online is dangerous business and most often than not we don't realize where and when to draw the line. Some things are better off kept private. Here are a few signs that tell you whether or not you're over-sharing your relationships online.

1. Your friends know every detail of your relationship- Did you change your relationship status from 'single' to 'committed' after just a few dates? If your friends know your Saturday night plans or what you gifted your partner on their promotion, it might be time to back off just a little.

2. You post everything up for approval- Are you obsessed with getting 'likes' and comments on your pictures and updates? If you like capturing every little moment and put it up online for adulation and approval, its time to stop. Realize that people you hardly know unknowingly have a say on your life and you're only pining for that attention instead of warding it away.

3.You and your partner have more contact online than in person- If the two of you are incredibly busy with your lives but don't miss a chance to post some random bouts of affection for each other online, its time to think about how much of that PDA is real and how much is made up

4.You update your status on a date- The minute that romantic evening you had planned out for yourself begins, you feel the need to inform the entire world about it. You're also concerned about what others must be thinking of you after reading your update. This makes the experience more superficial than meaningful.

5.You're concerned about what others think of your partner- Over most things, you're swayed by the opinions of your friends and family based on what they see online. Sometimes even comments from acquaintances or complete strangers bother you.

Going through an emotionally abusive relationships???

Being in an emotionally abusive relationship drains you completely. Emotional abuse comes in many forms - be it tormenting you to live up to their rules and regulations or a romantic entanglement. But you always don't have to live with it. There are ways you can tackle the situation and the person and come out of this mess strongly. 

Address the issue 

It is very important to address the situation. Do not overlook. Remember that you can change the situation, but not expect the other person or your partner to change completely. Show him/her how damaging his/ her behavior is and how it is affecting not only you but your relationship with him/her. You can then hope he/she will make a decision to change. The abusiveness in him/her is rooted in multiple layers of their emotions and perspectives, thus it will take some time for him/her to understand your situation. 

Do not compromise 

Compromising yourself in an emotionally abusive relationship will not heal your situation. You should not change yourself for anybody, just because he/she expects you to comply to their rules and regulations. That is not how a relationship works. Once you are firm and make a stand, he/she will understand gradually that you cannot be emotionally abused. 

A relation is about two individuals being together 

A relationship is about give and take. It can never be a one-sided affair. He/she also needs to understand that you have your own say in the relationship. Try and voice your opinions as well. Do not keep quiet and just listen to him/her. Make sure he/she hears you out, so that they know that they cannot emotionally abuse you. 

Learn to say NO 

It is crucial to say 'No' to him/her at times. If you always agree to what he/she tells you or expects you to do; he/she will take advantage of the situation.