"Being happy in personal life is the most important criteria to have a peaceful and successful professional career. Study suggests that lot of people go in depression because of their sour break ups with their respective guy and girl which in return effect their professional being. It would have been great if we knew the do's and don'ts of a relationship well in advance before committing to a relation. What a guy wants from a girl and what exactly he is ready to give in return have always been a topic of discussion in perhaps all the age groups and geographies."
So, let's start with what a guy wants from a girl?
1. To be that one person who she desires and wants to spend her maximum time with, no matter what stops her from doing so!
Yes, I know! You might think that it would make him to take you for granted but don't you think, this is how a relationship has to be. If he can't at the least take you for granted then who else he could? Just think about the last time he chose his friends or a cricket match over you!
2. Explain him your reasons of having done anything in a loving way while making him feel how much you missed him even in a group of people and be firm at the same time!
Yes, I too understand that the habit of explaining things may eventually infuse doubts in his minds but don't you think, those doubts may pile up if you don't do it at all! Moreover, if you explain yourself in a firmest of the way, I am sure he would think twice in doubting you. Be truthful in your reasons and you don't have to remember what reason you gave him the last time.
3. Argue, fight, disagree and debate with him in an intellectual discussion.
I always advise my female friends and colleagues to be that girl in his life who could challenge his intellect. Who doesn't want somebody who could help us out with her suggestions when we require it the most which could add value to life? Arguing, fighting, disagreeing and debating on every single intellectual topics challenges his IQ and there are high chances he would turn to you for suggestions in his most important decisions of life which could include "having a future with you"!
4. Never avoid his calls or messages even if you are in your busiest time of the day. Even if you do, ensure to call back.
Yes, it goes true for everyone and not only for a girl for his guy or a guy for his girl. A single incident of ignoring calls or messages might turn out in a habit. Never do that. Would you like to be a person who can't be trusted while somebody is in a need of something? What if, you lost somebody in an accident while you were busy sorting out your targets and achievements in your office and you had chosen to ignore his/her call at that time? Even if you do miss his calls or messages due to heavy work load, ensure to call back as soon as you find time.
5. Dedicate yourself to him. Solely and completely. Loose your identity!
Isn't it a nice thing to be loved by somebody to such an extent that you don't even know who you were when you started? Nah.. Don't be a pessimist now! It's always good to love a person in such a way that he is there on your mind 24/7. He is there with you while you wake up, taking bath, going to office, in those leisure time at office and sometimes in your busiest of schedule and till the time you sign off for the day and go to sleep! Though virtually but be assured he is there! Make it a habit and I am sure, you will definitely miss and cherish this!
6. Never go over board while praising your male colleague or a friend.
Yes, nobody wants to feel insecure by a potential competitor! What if, he starts praising his female colleague or a friend in the same way? Would you feel good about it? You might but that in most of the cases do not hold true for a guy who thinks about a future with you.
7. Never be absent for too long.
Even if you take your every step wisely and do everything correctly, there might be times when frustration and anger due to ego clashes takes over your relationship and you might sound negative about your own choice. Those are the times when you require that perseverance and belief more which could take you through those unwanted phases in relation. Understand! Its not the person but the situation which are unfavorable and you need to give it sometime or time for those unfavorable cloud to pass. But be sure of not being absent for too long because remember, he is missing you at the other end too and it should not hamper your future with him.
So girls, if you know you are with a right guy then be ready to sacrifice your every self to him and expect and get the same or rather more in return in terms of love.
Now, once you know what your guy wants, it becomes easier to tell what do you want? I am sure it is to reciprocate everything of what you do to him or at least half of it, if not completely!
Guys, if you do all the above written things to her then I am sure there won't be any single incident where you feel like calling off a relation!
Every relation in this world except the one with your parents is a "Give and Take" relation. If you are nice to somebody then you have all the rights to expect the same in return but if you yourself are at fault so you better know what it is! Don't you?
Thanks for reading!
